Crossing Genders at McDonalds

I can’t believe the holidays are over already. I’m prompted to write because of a beef (no pun intended;)) today. My house is in a shambles from all the work stuff this week (yes, sales are coming in!:). So I decided to break one of my cardinal rules and take the kids to McDonalds for supper. I have a love hate relationship with McDonalds. I love the taste of the food for about 10 seconds and then the greasy feeling kicks in and I feel like crap after. Not to mention the nightmare it does on the waist line. The kids have heard me harp many times over the years about the issues with McDonalds both from a health and ethical perspective. Although, yes, hippocritically I take the kids there for a quick fix every so often.

 So tonight, I order the kids happy meals. The toy choices are yugioh and pet store. Both boys have decided they want the Pet Store toy. When I get to the counter, the woman asks me if I want a boy toy or a girl toy. It was one of the days, one of those days where I didn’t let it slide. When annoyance of the long wait in line and two hungry kids flopping around caused me to blurt out. “That’s rather stereotypical don’t you think. I think it would be more appropriate to ask if I would like the yugio or Pet store toys, not the boy or girl toys as both toys can be used by both genders.” The cashier looked at me like I was a freak, said nothing. I grabbed my food and left. Then in typical fashion Alec reacts to this and starts with his “she said they’re girl toys, I can’t play with this”. Sigh.

Yes, I know, maybe it’s not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. But for some reason I’m still startled when this happens. That I keep thinking that way of thinking has finally been relegated to the dinosaurs. But then this happens and I realize it’s still very prevalant and perpetuated by media giants like McDonalds. Yes, I know some toys are more liked by girls than boys and vice versa, but why label them, let kids make their own choices.

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  1. Comment by Tori | 2007/01/06 at 17:13:36

    Hey Lisa,
    For what it’s worth, I have EXACTLY the same issues with McDonalds - the girl/boy toy thing, and the ethical problems with the corporation. And yet, I still occasionally take my kids there because they have so much darn fun playing in the playground. So, I don’t know if it makes you feel any better, but I’m a hypocrite too.

  2. Comment by Andrea | 2007/01/06 at 19:02:46

    Oh HEAR HEAR.

    After Addison working there, we have no desire to step in there again. That experience negated any reasons we had for occasionally (once every 5 years, lol) going in the place.

  3. Comment by Mary Ann | 2007/01/07 at 22:47:10

    What a great chuckle I had when I read Alec’s comment on the boy/girl toy. It must run in the family because when his father was that age, he wouldn’t eat at ‘’Annie’s Restaurant” because he said it was a girl restaurant and only girls ate there. Sigh….. Must have been the “Annie” name. :)

  4. Comment by SkylarKD | 2007/01/10 at 12:52:37

    Good for you! The gender stereotypes bug me too, and while the cashier doesn’t have any control over what McDonalds chooses to put in Happy Meals, she CAN change the way she refers to the toys when selling them.

  5. Comment by lisa | 2007/02/04 at 02:25:56

    I heard last week that McDonald’s may change it so that staff do not ask if they want a girl or boy toy. Not sure if it’s true or not, but stumbled on it mentioned on the McDonad’s social responsibility blog.

  6. Comment by Jack Earl | 2008/02/14 at 15:33:46

    I am 71 and I often purchase the toys for my grand kids, even without purchasing a kids meal. They rarely ask me the gender.


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